Xavier | 9.8" × 2" Vibrating Pulse Thrusting Dildo with Rounded Head, Thick Shaft & Heating

The silicone surface is really fine, not that gritty matte texture. It feels smooth to the touch, and once it heats up it gets even softer. Going in is easy, no scraping or discomfort at all.

My favorite routine is heat first, then slow thrusting, and once my body adjusts I add the vibration. All three at once is honestly brutal. I never last long.

The remote is so convenient. I can switch modes lying down without getting up, which matters most when I don't want to break the rhythm. One press and it changes. The thrusting and vibration adjust separately, so there are a ton of combinations.

The heat is regulated really well. It doesn't keep climbing, it just holds right around body temperature, so even after a long session it never gets uncomfortably hot.

I’m on my feet all day, so by the time I get home I don’t always want to do much. I usually start with the slower thrusting setting and add vibration if I want more. Great for those nights when I’m just tired.

Heat on, medium thrust, low vibration. That’s pretty much where I leave it now. I’ve tried the stronger combinations, but I like being able to keep everything at a level that actually works for me instead of just running every feature on max.

I bought Xavier for the movement, so the heating feature wasn’t something I thought much about.

Now I usually turn it on before anything else. It gives the whole experience a slower start, and I find myself using it more often than I expected.

I mainly bought Xavier because I wanted something powered that could also work with the harness I already had. Took me a few minutes to get the position right, but once it was fitted properly it stayed surprisingly stable. Having the movement come from the toy instead of me trying to keep the same rhythm manually makes a bigger difference than I expected.

Thought the remote would be a gimmick, but I actually use it all the time. Once Xavier is positioned I really don’t wanna reach down and mess with buttons. It responds quick and makes changing speed way easier.

First thing I said when I opened it was “oh wow” 😂 The 9.8 inch length was about what I expected, but the 2 inch thickness looks much bigger in person. I’m pretty experienced with toys and still had to slow down a little. Once I got comfortable with the size, the thrusting modes were really fun and felt much better than the cheap moving toy I owned before. Took one star off because it’s pretty bulky to store, but everything works like it should.

The placement of the vibration in the head is spot on. Other toys buzz against the surface. This one vibrates at the deepest point.

The silicone doesn't have that sharp rubber smell, and I'm really sensitive to that. I bought one before that I threw out the second I opened it. This one had barely any smell, and it was gone after one wash. I feel safe using it.

Had mine for a little over a month now and it still runs the same as when I first got it. The thrusting hasn’t slowed down, and I’m not constantly charging it after every use. No complaints so far.

For guys using it anally, the size does take some getting used to, but with lube and the heat turned on it goes in gradually. When it hits the prostate my legs just gave out. The thrusting mode does way more for me than the vibration.

I used to avoid toys because they felt like a hassle, charging them, cleaning them. This one holds a charge for a long time and cleaning is just a rinse. Best part is it moves on its own, so I don't have to do any work. Great for lazy people.

When it hits the deepest point I instinctively want to push it back out. It's not pain, it's just too full, and my body panics on its own. But the more that happens the less I want it to stop, like I'm being made to take it.

The silicone feels soft and comfortable, but it still has enough structure that it doesn’t feel cheap or floppy. The controls were easy to figure out and the whole thing feels better put together than a couple cheaper powered toys I’ve had before. Been using it for a bit now and so far it still feels solid.

The package showed up completely plain, which I appreciated because I live with other people and really didn’t want anything obvious sitting by the door. Simple experience, no awkward surprises.

Sunday mornings are usually when I use Xavier the most. No rushing, no trying to test every setting, just relaxing and letting it do its thing.

Didn’t think I would care much about the heating, but I use it almost every time now. I usually turn it on while I’m getting everything ready and by the time I use it the silicone already feels warm instead of cold.

I’m a guy and bought this mostly for anal use. I’ve been using larger toys for years, so I didn’t think the 2-inch thickness would be that big of a deal. Yeah... I was wrong lol. It definitely took some patience and I stayed on the slower pulse setting for quite a while before trying anything faster. Once I got used to the size it felt really good and the rounded head made it easier than some thicker toys I’ve owned with more aggressive shapes. I’d absolutely not call this beginner friendly though.

My bedroom shares a wall with another apartment, so noise was one of the first things I worried about. You can still hear the motor, but it’s more of a low hum than the loud buzzing my old powered toy made. I usually have a fan running anyway and it pretty much disappears into the background.